Tammy Elizabeth Perazza

Tammy Elizabeth Perazza, born April 26, 1966, passed away on April 3, 2026, in Warren, Michigan. She was preceded in death by her parents, Gerald Harder and Rosaline Arietta. Tammy lived her life with a constant focus on others, giving freely of her time, energy, and attention. She brought comfort to those around her and always placed family and loved ones first. She is survived by her daughter, Jacqueline Rose Elizabeth Harder; her siblings, Joseph Harder, Frederick Harder (Marie), Patrick Harder, and Kathleen Laamanen (John); her sister-in-law, Laura Perazza; and her nieces and nephews, Matthew Laamanen (Marlee), Michael Laamanen, and Andrew Harder; as well as her grandniece, Maizie Rose. She was also preceded in death by her beloved husband, Dennis Perazza, and her parents-in-law, Dennis and Nancy Perazza. Her marriage to Dennis was central to her life. He was the love of her life and brought her deep happiness, love, and security. She spoke of him often, and their bond remained with her always. After his passing, his loss left a profound void in her life. Tammy’s love for her daughter was unwavering, and Jacqueline was her greatest pride and joy. She found deep meaning in caring for her family and took pride in making sure others felt supported and included. She shared a special joy with her nephews, Matthew and Michael, and was overjoyed at the birth of her grandniece, Maizie Rose. She also shared a special bond with her beloved cat, Ms. Fluffy. Tammy had a remarkable memory and was often the keeper of family stories. She enjoyed researching her ancestry and preserving family history, ensuring that photos were saved, stories were told, and memories were never forgotten. She graduated from East Detroit High School in 1985 and worked at Kmart Headquarters, Xerox, Meritor, and Stanley Black & Decker. Tammy loved cooking, baking, scrapbooking, shopping, watching reality television, and playing the lottery and slot machines, and she rarely went anywhere without a Coca-Cola in hand. She was an avid fan of the Detroit Lions, Tigers, and Red Wings, as well as wrestling. She always believed her big lottery win was just one ticket away. Whether it was a scratch-off or a spin of the slot machine, Tammy played with confidence and fully expected that one day she would be the one calling everyone with the news that she had finally “hit it big.” While that jackpot never came, her optimism and sense of humor were part of what made it so enjoyable to be around her. In the kitchen, Tammy was just as memorable. She was always the first to volunteer to cook at family gatherings, making sure everyone was fed, comfortable, and together. Her shrimp scampi and homemade pasta sauce were family favorites, and her cupcakes were something special—rich, delicious, and always made in generous batches. No one ever left hungry, and her baking had a way of bringing people together. Family gatherings were especially meaningful to Tammy. She loved sitting around the table playing cards and the LRC dice game, laughing, talking, disagreeing, and enjoying time together. She had a way of bringing things back into perspective and was known for her blunt but caring reminders not to let things get you down, to laugh when possible, and to keep moving forward. Tammy was outgoing, expressive, and full of life. She filled every room she entered. Known for her loud, unmistakable voice, even her whisper could be heard, and she left a lasting impression on all who knew her. The family extends heartfelt thanks to all who supported Tammy during her illness. Special thanks to her childhood friends, Barb and Liz, who regularly checked in on Jacqueline; her neighbors, Kim and Emo, for their consistent support; and her daughter’s boyfriend, Jeff, for his kindness and care. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered for her vibrant spirit, her love of people, and the joy she brought to those around her. We take comfort in knowing that Tammy has been warmly welcomed into Heaven, where she is undoubtedly already reconnecting with loved ones and sharing stories in her unforgettable way. The family welcomes and appreciates the sharing of memories, photos, and condolences on the funeral home’s online guestbook Memorial Information: In lieu of flowers, donations may be made directly to Tammy’s daughter Jacqueline Harder. A gathering will be held on Saturday, April 18, 2026, at 9:00 a.m., followed by a 9:30 a.m. Mass at St. Blase Catholic Church, 12151 15 Mile Road, Sterling Heights. A celebration of life will immediately follow the Mass at Da Francesco’s Restaurant, 49521 Van Dyke, Shelby Township.

Tammy Elizabeth Perazza

April 26, 1966 - April 3, 2026